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Well written article...
My sincere condolences to everyone who loved and cared about this young man. God did take him back ... and yes ... Jaden is resting in eternal peace.
Well said JJ
I pray that this mother and family will find sincere peace and rest that God is taking care of Jaden and them
It was well written
"There are days now when I feel like I can go on," she said.
Says it all, doesn't it.
Safeguard your kids
My condolences to the family, but for others out there with special need children and even for ones without special needs, you really need to safeguard them at all times. Everything from specialized door locks which need an adult to open the door, personal proximity alarms if a child gets to far from the area the parent can be alerted, even as simple as a alarm on the door which goes off if it is opened. Some of these devices are very inexpensive and can save your childs life, every penny is worth that.
I konw
I'm glad that the true story is finally out.I knew Jaden very well,and I also know his Mother, Grandmother, and Uncle.
It broke my heart to have people judge them without knowing the full story.
Jaden was a very special little boy, he was the happiest child I have ever met.Anyone who was lucky enough to know Jaden,was truly blessed.
Thank you, zephyr
It broke my heart, too, to see people judging this family without any knowledge of the situation. I pray that the family finds peace.
My Heart
goes out this Mom. I can't even begin to imagine her grief. We try to watch them, but it is impossible to be on guard every waking moment and to anticipate every possible danger.
God works in mysterious ways
My heart goes out to you...and understand everything your going through....God is amazing man and it was Jaden time to go see him along with my son and he will be watching out for you in everything you do and knows what you are doing he is right there with you.
WOW - what a heart wrenching story
May this family find peace and loving from within the community.
Well Written
This is a well written story. Much feeling is shown through the words. Things are explained that weren't before. I have learned that to judge people early on makes one look silly but also it brings on guilt. My appologies to the family for thinking neglect was a factor in the childs death. May God continue to work wonders in the lives of this family and may this experience continue to grow all those people who knew little Jaden.
what???
Why would God want someone back in heaven that was a child? Does that make any sense to anyone? Does he need a little childs little heart to make the place a happier place to be??? Ohh, no wait, heaven is eternal bliss. So that doesnt make sense. Maybe there is more work to be done for God in heaven than on earth, ohh wait that doesnt make any sense either. What ever you people need to do to keep forcing yourselves to believe in your pappy God, whatever. Trust me, it is much more kind to your sanity to just believe that the boy just ran into the crueler parts of this world. And there are cruel parts.
God save the fetus and not the muslims!!! ohh wait, what about the fetus of muslim parents??? Im confused.
shaunfrederick, I was waiting for someone like you
To make an unkind un-compassionate post like this. Sad.
Wow.
I was just about to flag this comment... but someone else already has. Thank you!
You know what
I'm an atheist. And you make me sick.
I may not believe in God or heaven but I will not ever hold it against someone who does. And you want to know something? That makes me a better person than you.
Good job, Mr. Skippy!
Good job.
Thank you Mr. Skippy.
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Thanks Skippy
Truth is hard to come by
shaunfrederick
You ARE confused! It is good to see you have taken the first step to healing...admitting you are confused.
Thats amazing
How ignorant people can be. Honestly you spit your stupid rant about muslims and make uneducated comparisons between the two things of an innocent child dying in a tragic accident. Im not a christian, but who says you can't believe what you want to believe? Oh yeah, the crazy muslims on the other side of the world! Seems to me you haven't found your place yet in this world, beacuse from what it sounds like you should be hanging out with the terrorists in iraq. They wont let you believe what you want to believe either, not to mention they will condemn you for it as you have done to others. Honestly who says "god wont save the muslims" minus everyone who is as dense as you are.
God takes children back to heaven
so they can avoid meeting wonderful souls like shaunfredrick here on Earth. And he leaves folks like SF here to warn us all what Hell is like.
More Kind?
You're an idiot. If the only thing that gets this bereaved mother through the day is picturing her toddler in heaven, then more power to her for having that belief.
It is ABSOLUTELY not more kind to think that a child was taken out of cruelty than for some reason. If you ever have children, and one is hit by a car, get back to us.
Obviously, someone taught you at a young age that the world is a cruel place, and you believe it. You have become the cruel part of the world you fear. We are all lucky that you are not raising children, or they might grow up to be misogynists like you.
Religious zealots are all the same. No guts, no conscience
They don't have the guts to realize that when we die, we die. End of story.
They think they can be petty, mean, and selfish, but the Lord died to save them from their sins and all will be fine in heaven. I think most of them know down deep it's all a crock of S***.
I took the liberty of flagging this
Feel free to tell the Statesman I am stalking you.
Pig.
Truth is hard to come by
Thank you, PJ.
I would have done it myself, but you beat me to it.
Zeke, A mother has lost a child
and you need to learn from Mr. Skippy.
Everyone is sad about the loss of a child
It hurts badly and deeply. But to think there is some afterlife where all are happy is beyond belief. It's the cowardice of religions, where Muslims might get virgins after death, or the LDS may get plural marriages, it's all bs.
Maybe another forum
Or just keep it to yourself.
Truth is hard to come by
Zeke, go back and read your post again.
There was no hurt feelings in it. Just condemnation for other's beliefs.
nothing is beyond belief
You believe there is no afterlife. Many do. No, they can't prove it. But neither can you. So why not just shut up and ignore it? Otherwise it is like "my old man can beat up your old man" kid crap.
The virgins the muslums get are teenage
boys that play on computers all day. What a surprise that must be.
spoken like a true pimpbama supporter...
very consistent.
but if pimpbama knew you blasted islam, he'd personally behead you.
when did I say I supported anyone
currently in the race? And who's blasting Islam? I'm just saying they aren't too specific when promising virgins to the martyrs.
Did She Go to Your Church?
What on earth makes you think this mom is a religious zealot????????????
She is a very young woman trying to cope with an incredibly tragic event in her life, not a zealot.
I'm proud of you, though, for having the guts to blog about her, and spread lies, instead of talking to her face to face - that takes REAL guts.
Prayers for this family
I read this right after it was posted last night and it broke my heart. How sad that the Mother (and Grandmother) had to go through this tragedy. That little soul was needed in heaven for unknown reasons. It might not be so much for needing him there but for needing his presence here for a short time to teach something to us. I'm certain his family learned enough for a lifetime from this little angel.
I know some of us outside of the family were touched as well by his story. The far reaching impacts of little Jadens life will likely never be truly known.
Wonderful story! Wonderful little boy!
He's happy catching butterflies?
On the rainbow bridge? C'mon folks.
Please Zeke,
For once, let you strong opinions take second place to compassion. Bring up your point somewhere else.
I second that.
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Gotta hand it to you Zeke
Spectacular trolling.
Truth is hard to come by
Thanks again, PJ.
He caught me. I should have known.
Caught me too
Happens all the time. Some stuff just needs an answer.
Truth is hard to come by
What we humans can't wrap our brains around...
...is the eternity of the Divine. For the Lord, three years and three millennia are the same. What matters is that life was lived, loved, and learned from. Therein is the evidence of grace.
You can hold your religious myths sacred.
I have no problem with that. That's why you care so much that every human gets care, food, and love. Right? What do you think Christ and St. Peter will say to you when you left Katrina victims helpless for days, or those in Haiti or Dafur? Just waiting for the GOP trickle down theory to work? It's just an economic thing? I don't believe in heaven. I believe in responsibility and accountability here.
Religious zealots think they can buy themselves a place in heaven while mocking the sick and the poor and those who take care of them.
I'd rather die and be cremated knowing I tried to help the less fortunate knowing there was no heaven, than die thinking Jesus might approve of my take care of the rich scenarios.
You got to go with what you believe.
Zeke
I have read post after post of yours - and I'm sick of it - not every story - and ESPECIALLY NOT THIS ONE is a platform for your political banter or religious jabs!!! Take it somewhere else! Let this family alone and let this little boy rest in peace!!
I'm powerful enough to affect this family?
Or his ability to RIP. I hardly think so.
Zeke, lemme splain this to you
Normally you're pretty on the money a lot of the time.
But this time you're just acting like a well... something I shouldn't say here.
I'm an atheist and don't hold tenant in the afterlife theories either. But when someone is grieving, simply hurting and trying to find solace, trying to make sense of a suddenly upside down world, there's no reason to bash their beliefs. I'm all for standing up to Christian Dogma when it's being forced down my throat. But when someone's simply trying to feel better there simply is no reason to attack them like you did.
Don't fall into the trap of attacking people who aren't attacking you just because they don't have the same beliefs as you. It makes you no better than the people that DO attack you when you've done nothing to them.
sad
I am a family member and saddened to see this discussion turning the way it is. Jaden was here for a reason. He accomplished what he was here for and he moved on. The family is grief stricken but moving on and passing his love and the lessons he gave us on to others. Those who cannot be caring, compassionate or even slightly intelligent, please don't feel the need to post. His mother and grandmother do not need to hear you petty useless comments. You took something that was beautiful and a strong point in this community, compassion, and turned it into something ugly. You should be ashamed of yourself. My guess is you have no conscience and are unable to feel shame. God bless Jaden, Mikera, Peggy, Gary and Alysha. God did have a plan, it played out and we will cherish the memories.
chantelandsam
I apologize if I offended you in any way - I was not trying to engage in any negativity. I simply wanted people to take there stupidity elsewhere. So I want to apologize if I offended you and I certainly meant no disrespect to you or your family. And I am so sorry for your loss!!
Thank you
Thanks to Patrick Orr who wrote a wonderful article. You are a talented writer who was able to envoke emotion and touch so many. Thank you for taking the time to write this piece.
keeponliving
Thank you for your kind words. I agree with you that this isn't a place for these discussions.
Sorry for your loss... too bad "God" is such an insecure a-hole.
With all due respect...If people really think God is responsible for human tragedy, then why repress natural emotions and not openly DESPISE this horrible beast called God?